Soul-searching

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Recently a fine lady I happen to know got quite concerned about her grandson attitude towards work. He’s finished his masters and started looking for a job. A part time job exactly, so he would have time left for his … Continued

Giving your power away…

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Have you ever had “one of those days”? You wake up late in the morning, the weather sucks, your partner is grumpy, the barista makes a wrong coffee for you at the local coffee shop, the guy cuts you off … Continued

Torn between polarities.

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I had a client struggling with a difficult choice between committing his time and energy to the women he wanted to be in relationship with, and his passion for the outdoors and the freedom he was finding there. He perceived … Continued

Relationship thoughts… again

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I spent two months in Europe visiting my birthplace and other places I lived in for more than a half of my life. I met family and old friends. It wasn’t the first visit since I emigrated from Europe, far … Continued

Who is running your life?

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One of my friends (age 50 or so) told me recently, that she still lived her life the way her mother wanted her to; that she always worried if her mother would approve of her decisions, and be  happy with … Continued

Love is all you need

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Our friends are splitting up after 11 years of being together. I am very sad. They have not been married, had no kids; it is easy. One person just takes their stuff and moves away. No, I do not think … Continued

Why do we lie?

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I heard many answers, from the silly ones to quite sophisticated. Generally we lie out of fear: fear of punishment, fear of being judged, fear of consequences. Some people claim that lying is easier than saying the truth. I have … Continued

Acting vs. reacting.

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I drink a herb tea called Yogi brand. Eery tea-bag has a little message attached to the string. Today my message read: “act, do not react”. It made me think about the meaning of those two words; how they both … Continued

Pre-Valentine’s thoughts…

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I was looking for a book today and came across another one, which existence I have almost forgotten. I have also forgotten why I had it at home and where it came from: “Do I Have to Give Up Me … Continued

The art of saying sorry.

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  I know, volumes have been written about the topic, and here we go again. For some reason I feel I should add my five cents into the conversation. I often face this issue in sessions with my clients: “I … Continued